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looks like I have gone offline for few days, I was kind of busy (lazy) to post.
I had to stop by to day and ask if I am being too judgmental.
You see, I am a person who generally doesn’t really care what people think of how I look, speak or act.
I think its none of their business.
In the same way, I don’t care how people dress and speak or act, unless they offend me intentionally.
So here is the thing, the other day, I was out with my roommates when a couple walked by.
The woman was obviously older and she was strangely dressed for my taste and outrageously dressed for my roommates’ taste.
I walked by and didn’t give them a second look, didn’t comment on anything.
My roommates however pointed fingers:
“Are they really a couple?”
“How did she get him?”
“Is he blind?”
“Maybe she’s rich?”
You know, that kind of talk, which honestly made me sick.
The same thing had repeated more than once about many people.
I won’t say I don’t notice when people are dressed, look or act differently. But that’s all that comes to my mind, different.
Its a free country, they can do as they like. Its not a crime to fall for an older person or wear too much colors.
In short, its no one’s business. Their life, their business.
The thing is someone once told me that judging people as judgmental was being judgmental.
So am I being that?
Am I pointing fingers and calling others some adjectives for doing exactly what I am doing?
I mean, I’m not saying they are bad girls or harsh for that matter.
They should just mind their own business. I have often asked them to keep their eyes, and mouths, to themselves.
What do you think? Is saying this makes me the same?